This is my โnowโ page inspired by Derek Sievers. It answers โwhat Iโm doing now?โ. My life, projects and priorities. I post an update here every 1-3 months.
Whatโs up as of November 2024?
Over the past few months, Iโve embraced the joy of investing in memories. One experience that stands out is a visit to a cozy cafรฉ housed on the ground floor of a church, where the warmth of a kind barista reminded me of the true value of connection. This journey has deepened my understanding that lasting happiness often comes from shared moments rather than material goods. As I was reflecting on these insights, I decided to share my experience with burnout and recorded an episode to show that it is totally
Investing in memories โ๏ธ
We visited a very nice cafรฉ located on the ground floor of a church. The coffee tasted really good, so I asked if they knew what it was. An elderly lady replied, "I don't know, darling, but we serve it here with a smile on our faces and warmth in our hearts."
How amazing. We will remember how we felt at this time in this place for a long time.
We are conditioned to measure success with the accumulation of material possessions. We strive to own the latest gadgets, the biggest houses, and the most fashionable clothes.
But what happens when the initial thrill of acquiring these things fades? True wealth lies not in what we own, but in the richness of our experiences.
๐๐๐ ๐ฉ๐ง๐ช๐ก๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ก๐ฉ๐๐ฎ ๐๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐ช๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐ฃ ๐๐๐ช๐ฃ๐๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐จ๐ค๐ช๐ง๐๐ ๐ค๐ ๐ข๐๐ข๐ค๐ง๐๐๐จ.
These memories, these beautiful moments, offer a return on investment far greater than any material possession.
๐๐ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ผ ๐๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ: They teach us valuable lessons, broaden our perspectives, and create lasting connections with others.
๐ ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด๐ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ, ๐บ๐ฒ๐บ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ: The joy of owning a new car might fade over time, but the memory of a family road trip will continue to bring smiles for years to come.
๐ ๐ฒ๐บ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ฎ ๐น๐ฒ๐ด๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ท๐ผ๐: As we journey through life, we collect a treasure trove of experiences that become part of our personal narrative. These memories provide comfort, inspiration, and a sense of connection to our past.
๐ก How can we shift our focus from possessions to experiences?
๐๐ป๐๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ๐: Instead of buying another gadget, consider planning a weekend getaway, taking a cooking class, or attending a concert.
๐๐ถ๐ณ๐ ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ๐: Give loved ones gifts that create shared memories, such as tickets to a show or a day trip to a nearby town.
๐๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐บ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐: Put down your phone and truly engage in the experiences you're having. Savour the beauty of your surroundings, connect with the people around you, and allow yourself to be fully present.
By choosing experiences over possessions, we invest in something far more valuable – our own happiness and the richness of our lives.
Publishing my first digital product โ
Iโve prepared something for people who would like to (or have to) change the job.
โ๏ธ interactive checklist, including information on how to:
- prepare your LinkedIn profile, including photo, headline, about section, and other important components
- structure and edit your CV, including examples of executive summary
- prepare for the interview, including the question examples and how to check a startup condition and your new role
- check your future employer thanks to tools and articles I included
- connect with experts, thanks to my recommended list of people I follow
๐eBook compiling all sections from the above checklist to get coherent view of all the information and knowledge
๐๏ธ newsletter to have access to all additional materials
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Engaging in intellectual sparring to improve your teamโs strategic thinking ๐ค
While in Polish Your Polish Toastmasters, I came across a captivating form of debate known as the Oxford Debate.
Imagine this: youโre given a topic in advance, for instance: โOur current architecture model is good for the future.โ
Two teams are formed one supporting the statement and the other opposing it.
But hereโs the twist: ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ฎ๐๐๐ถ๐ด๐ป๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ!
This setup presents interesting challenges and incredible opportunities. The objective? Help your team โwin.โ
Itโs easier if you agree with the topic, but what if you disagree?
Thatโs when the real magic happens. Youโll need to find compelling arguments against the statement, all while aiming for victory.
But wait, thereโs more!
You must prepare arguments for both sides. Even if youโre on the team supporting your beliefs, be ready with counter-arguments.
The opposing team might surprise you with points youโve considered while preparing for the debate.
This exercise opens our minds to different perspectives and viewpoints, fostering growth and understanding. Itโs an exhilarating and beneficial experience that sharpens our critical thinking skills.
It is worth trying, especially given that we live in such a polarised society where every topic seems to elicit heated discussions, with people wanting to defend their arguments rather than listen to the other side.
Sharing my experience on burnout ๐
In the latest episode o my podcast, I dive deep into a topic that affects leaders, professionals, and everyday individuals alike: burnout.
But did you know that burnout is a gradual process with clear stages?
Join me as I break down the 12 stages of burnout, from the initial drive to succeed to the final stages of mental and physical collapse.
Through this episode, youโll learn:
- How to identify the early signs of burnout in yourself and others.
- The progression from working harder to experiencing depersonalization and exhaustion.
- Practical tips for preventing burnout before it reaches severe stages.
Whether youโre feeling the pressures of work, managing a team, or simply want to be more aware of mental health warning signs, this episode is a must-listen.
Tune in, and letโs talk about how to bring awareness and balance into our lives. Remember: burnout is preventable, and early recognition is key.
- Introverts vs. Extroverts: Thriving in a Spectrum of Strengths
- The Three Stages of Engineering Leadership: How to Evolve as a Leader
- How to Create More Happiness in Your Life
- Timeโs True Value: A Leaderโs Guide to Intentional Living
- Recognising Burnout Before Itโs Too Late
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Updated: 13 Nov 2024